When will I respect your beliefs?

Does anyone feel religions that insist on putting themselves on the front lines deserves my respect? I am not respected when I say leave me alone I don't want my child to learn about sky fairies in school. I don't want my children decapitated for not believing in Allah. I don't want your religious laws to affect my life. Yet you disrespectfully continue to try and force them on the public. Instead of keeping to yourselves, your spin off sects kill or torture non believers. Anti-Gay, Anti-abortion,- Anti-stem cell research. Why? because your god is offended. You claim this perfect being created all and has a plan. Well, If he does have a plan then there is nothing you can do to help or hurt it with your arrogance. If there is no Plan then your most likely wrong about everything. So when will I respect you? What do you think?